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Masks, Red Arrows, and EntitlementIn June we lost my father -in- law to Covid 19. He died in a hospital room, and we were not allowed be there. We talked to him on facetime a few minutes before he died. We did not have a wake or funeral, and people in hazmat suits took him to be cremated. The whole experience was traumatic, and now in November some of the feelings, for me, are just emerging. In the moment we were in the thick of this Pandemic and I guess I not only didn't feel entitled to be angry about the way it went down, but those feelings also come to the surface only after grieving a while. When someone goes out in public without a mask or does not follow the red arrows at the supermarket or some other simple Covid precaution or protocol, as a person who went through the above, I perceive your defiance as a direct "fuck you." I know you don't mean it as such, but that is how I perceive it. If I confront you at the supermarket for not following the protocols, I'm doing so because I am angry and traumatized. I hold back a lot but sometimes I can not hold it back anymore, not because your actions are stupid, entitled, insensitive, and unnecessary, but because I'm still hurting and you are disrespecting my grief. Please have a little respect. I'm really doing my best to have compassion for you. If I confront you you're getting the bare minimum. Inside I'm in your face screaming at you, but outside I am politely pointing out that you're going the wrong way or sheepishly asking you to put your mask over your nose. Tuesday, November 3rd 2020 |
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